These children coming through are so very different to our generation in so many ways.
They might look the same and sound the same.
But spend just a short amount of time with them and you quickly see they are a whole new version of our species.
The things that worked for us just aren’t working for these children.
I know, because I have one.
And you might to.
It could be your child or your grandchild.
And many mothers I work with share similar stories.
Because these children are coming through to change the world.
They are here to raise the vibration of the planet.
And they can’t raise the vibration of the planet doing the same thing we did.
They draw attention to themselves wherever they go. There is a very special quality in them.
The way they approach life and respond to it is catching many parents off guard.
My son is 3 ½ years old.
He has instigated more change, healing and spiritual growth in our family then any other experience we have ever had … and we have been through a few challenging times.
And I’m not talking about the change and growth that occurs with parenthood. This is something very different.
What I have come to notice is a pattern of the new wave of children choosing to enter into families already on their spiritual journey.
I didn’t start my spiritual journey until I was 28 and found myself with chronic fatigue, Ross River Fever and depression.
My husband’s started at 37 when he found himself in an Oncology Ward with a tumour 6x4x2” around his heart and lungs.
By joining us, our son steps right into this pathway in a way we never could.
And this new wave of children are needing this for the work they are to be doing in this world.
They’ve chosen us to help them, as they can’t do it on their own.
The world is at the cusp of change.
There is massive change coming.
Which is why the old ways are rebelling.
Just look at the politic state around the world.
Health and over medicated society.
Where we sit, our generation, the parents, are the first wave to bring change into this world.
Our children, these beautiful change-agents, will step it up greatly, if we do the work with them and if we create the space for them.
We are the first to have an opportunity in all areas of life to do it differently.
We can build businesses, ones we just love, around our family.
We can earn our own money.
The way we “do” relationships has completely changed.
We can create family life that is aligned with us.
Everything is changing.
And we are leading it.
This new change, the ones our children are calling forward that this change begin with us.
So what do we do to help them, to help us?
- Clear Out The Old And Out-dated Belief Systems
We can’t fully embody the new belief system and new way of being without cleaning out the old. It’s like putting on a new band-aid over a grubby old one and hoping the wound has healed without actually checking.
It just doesn’t work that way.
The beliefs we have inherited from our family around money, relationships, mental health and speaking our truth are no longer serving us or our children.
When we inherit these belief systems from our previous 7 generations we pass them forward down the family line. Clearing them out is the fastest way you can embody the new beliefs and creating change for your children.
Learn what your patterns and beliefs are contained within your family lineage and what a stored in your DNA and clear them out.
- Let Them Lead The Change
It can be scary thought. Let them lead. They have come in wired for this change, they know it better than we do.
So let them lead it.
That doesn’t mean giving a 3 year full reign to do what they want.
It means connecting and really listening to them.
Putting aside what you were told was possible for children at that age. Put aside what the system says they can and can’t do.
And really see them.
Advocate for them.
My son is 3 ½ and can swim like a fish.
He’s such a good swimmer that the swim school don’t know what to do with him.
He has the swimming ability of children twice his age.
At first, they didn’t want to put him up a swim group because they worried about his maturity.
We pushed for it and finally got him moved up.
It’s quite funny seeing them all stand on the platform and here’s my son, who barely comes up to the other children’s shoulders and is always used as the exemplar in the group.
Then within 2 weeks, he was ready to move up to the next group.
This is his natural gift. We weren’t going to suppress it because of his size or age.
We held our ground and he’s thriving in these groups.
While all mothers have a strong mothering instinct. The mother’s of this new wave of children seem to have a deeper connection that works both ways.
They are calling us to trust it.
And we will be called to make decisions about their education, health and welfare that go outside the normal parameters because these children can’t change the world if they follow what everyone else has done.
I truly believe my son called in this work. He was the one who called this in, to make the changes in our family lineage, for both my husband and myself. He needed us to upgrade these belief systems so he can go forth and do what he needs to do in this world.
Ancestral healing was never about myself or my husband. It was about our son.
It’s not about you either, it’s about your children.
It’s the legacy we leave them and how they leave their mark on the world.
Helena Ryan lives in Brisbane Australia with her husband, son and border collie. When she’s not working she’s reading books, going camping or bushwalking or playing diggers with her son in the sandpit. She loves to garden and travel. She has served in the Australian Army and spent a decade as a Primary School Teacher. In 2011 she helped her husband clear his cancer, a 6x4x2” tumour around his lungs.
P.S. If this resonated with you, I work with female entrepreneurs from all around the world to identify how their ancestral lineage is impacting their business and their personal life. Find out how your Ancestral Lineage is impacting your journey or connect with Helena on Facebook.