Here are some common questions I get asked:
What do you need?
- Ancestral Map – printed in front of you for each session
- Ancestral Workbook or notebook and paper
- Pen, tissues, water
- Undisturbed space
All of these resources will be made available to you upon the PayPal linkbei ng activated. I have a page dedicated to Ancestral Resources that you access.
What not to expect
Your ancestors don’t always show up and it often takes up a lot of time if we go digging for every name. In some cases names are important to the healing and we will elicit those names.
Wizz bang fireworks with every ancestor and session
I’ll be honest, some ancestors and quarters are not that fascinating or interesting. Sometimes the quarter is like listening to a broken record player – the beliefs and behaviours are so ingrained they are in every one of them.
On occasion I channel and ancestral lineage that has royal blood or ancestors who were famous. It’s rare. If they aren’t too fascinating with exotic and exciting lives, it doesn’t make the information less valuable or important. These people are in your blood and send them love.
Some quarters are very dense and heavy and at the end of it, you can feel a bit shattered as the heavy energy begins to release.
To connect with every piece of information
And it’s a good thing. I have found we need our own personal experience to activate the ancestral DNA blueprint. That means we have an experience similar that activates the cell memories passed down the generations. If you don’t “connect” with it, it’s actually a good thing.
For example, there is a history of women marrying very dominant and abusive men. I have never had this experience. My sisters, however, both seem to have had experiences that line up with this ancestral belief set. Mine was never activated, theirs was. I don’t connect with domestic violence in my lineage because it’s never been my story.
The abundance blocks, however, had been highly active in my life. My sister, on the other hand, is a highly paid scientist in the UK. Her personal experience hasn’t triggered the DNA blueprint of poverty the way it had in my life.
Some of the information that is presented may not show up in your physical life, but in the lives of those around you.
To feel like you’ve walked out of the day spa
When we work with ancestors we are dealing with a lot of energy that is stuck or hasn’t been expressed. It’s been sitting there, sometimes hundreds of years, and if you are the one holding the space for the ancestors to be heard, then it will be expressed through you. Sometimes it is expressed as an inability to sit still or an annoyance at the reading. Sometimes you can get fidgety or yawn a lot. Sometimes people cry or feel resistant. There is no right or wrong way; it’s just good to be mindful of it.
I’ve compiled an extensive list of tools that will help you in between our sessions. Please visit Ancestral Tools and at any stage you are welcome to contact me for support during our time together.
All your problems to just … disappear
Ancestral Work isn’t a magic wand that will take away all your “problems”. You won’t wake up every morning for the rest of your life in pure bliss. You are human and you will continue to have human experiences, emotions and responses.
What it does do is clear out what you’ve inherited so you are only left with your “stuff”. When you have cleared out all of the beliefs you are only left with yours which means that when you are in perturbation or stress, you only see your stories which makes it much easier to sort through them and clear them out as opposed to your stories and emotions being filtered and exasperated by the Ancestral beliefs.
What I’ve experienced and the feedback clients have given me is that the ups and downs of life reduce and aren’t as intense. You are less impacted by stressful moments and challenges and you don’t respond the way you use to.
What you can expect
Results unfold over time
This work is deep and happens at a deep subconscious level. You will notice subtle changes in the way you think right through to noticing things just don’t bother anymore, the way they use to. Because it is so deep, there is no effort required to make the changes and they can actually be missed!
The ups and downs of life to be less dramatic
Since clearing my own ancestral lineage I’ve noticed the roller coaster of
life is less charged and dramatic. It’s also feedback I get from clients too. ● Knowledge in who you are
It’s hard to describe this, as it is a feeling. What I’ve experienced is I know who I am. I am strong in who I am now. It is as if a big tree root has planted me firmly to the ground and I’m not as easily influenced by others or seduced by wonderful offers or hurt from people cancelling. A lot of my clients are reporting the same thing. They feel stronger in who they are.
Family relationships to change
One of the common side effects to this work is the change in family dynamics. One of my clients told me her mother, who she hadn’t spoken to for years, called her out of the blue and they talked for 1 hour. Another client’s family has become more emotionally connected and supportive of each other, when before they weren’t. Relationship challenges in families tend to settle down a little.
Only being left with just your “stuff”
One of the biggest gifts of this program is you are just left with your “stuff”. I’ve found that since doing this work, when things come up, it is all MY OWN. It is so wonderfully refreshing. I’m not triggering any old beliefs or patterns. It is all me. Which means, it is less intense, I clear more and I do it faster.
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